He's Fifteen Years Old
Friday, September 16, 2005

This past week my husband came home to tell me a co-worker had asked him to take in a fifteen year old hispanic boy. The boy has been taking care of his mentally challenged brother, he has no idea where his father is and his mother has disappeared. His older brother has been caring for them financially. One day last year this boy came to school drunk. He has a hard time getting to school on time and was put into what we call AEP, it's an alternative program. It's not Challenge where the really bad behavior kids go, but it's where kids go who have problems and cannot function in the normal school environment. Anyway, this boy came to school last week and advised this lady, who is the school nurse that he could no longer make it alone, he had gone as far as he could go, he was tired and giving up.
So we sat down and began to look at what we could do. We already have two boys living with us and we minister to fifty two at the Correctional facility along with the boys who have gotten out and call us periodically, plus the neighborhood kids whom we have ministered to and had bible studies with. My heart goes out to this young man, but I explained to my husband we really needed to think this through before we make this decision. He was really ready to bring him home, but I was putting the brakes on. We don't even know the whole story yet, this boy still has two siblings who also need help, so I know there has to be some kind of assistance that could help all three of them. I just know it isn't about quanity, it's about quality. Sometimes I wish we could save the world, but I know we can't. I am really at my limit right now, it's enough for me to work fulltime, keep up with our ministry and be consistent with the two we have at home now and go see my mother who has been sick for the past four years.
So, now I ask if each of you would stop and say a prayer for this young man, I would greatly appreciate it. Please ask God to open a door for him to receive help and for us to have wisdom in this situation. We are going to meet with him and see what we can do to find him help. I gave my husband all my insight on the whole picture, not just the situation at hand. I explained I wasn't saying I didn't want to take him in, but I wanted to make sure that was the right decision. So after all my input, he decided perhaps it was more than we were equipped to handle right now. So again, please lift this boy up in prayer, God knows who he is and what his needs are, as well as his siblings. I appreciate all of your prayers, God bless all of you!


18 Comments:
We are praying.
You have done so much. It is wise to know where the limits are.
God would rather have you do what He has given you well than to have to compromise quality.
You got it dear lady!
Joe said it very, very well.
Prayer coming your way!
You are in my prayers.
I think it's great what you both do for those boys, and I am sure if you had the room and the time you would take in more because you have such a giving heart. I really hope that you are able to help that boy out, and guide him in the right direction.. whatever that would be.
i can see dad wanting to bring this kid home, but you are right mom, eventually you have to say no or else your house will turn into a children's home of sorts - which it kind of already is!
I've said a prayer just now for this boy, as well as you and your husband to have the Wisdom to know what to do.
God had given you a big heart that is full of love and compassion for people, and I can tell by your posts that you use it beyond its capacity. While we can't do everything for everyone, we can do what we can for those we can do it for...gee I hope that last sentence makes sense...
Just lifted him up in prayer, and I will continue to do so. I will also be praying for you and your husband, that God will give you wisdom and make the path clear. He knows the plans he has for this boy, to give him a future and a hope. He will work it out in His own time.
My prayers go your way for the child and your household.
It is difficult when you wish to save the world. I understand.
God bless you.
I'm glad ya'll thought that through...I'll keep praying!
love you!
Praying even as I type this.
Done.
To have been through all of this and only be 15. Wow.
Sometimes the hardest word to learn is 'no.' :(
Sending a prayer up for this young man.
done.
thanks for all of your prayers, God has the Answers, so we will wait on Him to reveal to us His will in this situation, so again thank you!
Of course, I will pray with you. Don't beat yourself up either - Whatever you undertake, act with prudence, and consider the consequences. When God is painting a Masterpiece, it's never wise to take the brush out of His hand.
Lifting you up in prayer...your heart is enormous...
Blessings,
Donna
Have you come to any decisions yet? I have been praying since I read this. **hugs**
It breaks my heart to hear the stories of those hurting in the world. We are so blessed.
Prayers for the young man.
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