Love Thy Neighbor

Thursday, October 20, 2005

This week I have been thinking alot about what is really important in life? What matters? I have a tendency to watch people. I drive down the road and wonder where the people are going and how many are lost or hurting? Am I just going about my business or do I notice when my co-worker needs to talk, when my neighbor feels like there is no way out, when my family needs more of my time, or when my friend just needs me to listen? Do I even notice?

I wonder about the guy across the street from me who decided to put a shotgun to his chest and blow himself away. What was he thinking? Did he even consider the effect it would have on his wife and kid when they came home and found him in the front room of their home? What drove him to that point, why did he think it was the only way out? Why didn't we notice something was wrong? Why didn't we sense he felt hopeless? Am I too caught up in what I am doing to notice my neighbor is hurting?

Then I wonder about the man who was laying in the street last week who was found curled up in a fetal position. He was hit in the face by a young 21 year old male. When he hit the ground, he hit his head on the cement. He was careflighted to a local hospital, but died later in intensive care. Now his life is over and so is the young man who hit him, who is charged with murder. What were they doing? What was the thing that made him so angry, worth going to prison for the rest of his life?

What about the thirty year old man whose body was found in the lake? Did he end it himself or did someone do something to him? I wonder who he left behind? I wonder who missed him? I wonder if he planned it? Who did he leave behind?

What about the twenty two year old female who was working where my sister works. She said she wasn't feeling well. She thought there was a problem with her insulin, so she called her mom on the phone. She'd only been working for a week, her mother told her to suck it up and stay at work. She finally convinced her mom to come and get her. That night she laid down, then got up really sick, her mother took her to the hospital, she had a blood infection, she died the next morning.

God is always watching, He sees us when we are hurting. He also sees us when we pass others by. I think about the Good Samaritan. In the story there were those who passed by, then there was the one who stopped and did what He could. I hope God opens my eyes to those I can reach in my neighborhood, at my workplace, in my family, so I am not the one who just walks by, but I stop and do what I can. Mother Teresa was just a little pencil in God's hand and she was used mightily, she was Jesus to all those she ministered to. How humbling it is for me to think about her service for Christ.

One person can make a difference. I want to be an inspiration, not for my recognition or glory but for His! I want to be a light, a tiny match setting a forest fire! This week, I am going to look for anyone I see who is hurting, I am going to purposely see who I can help everyday. I mean like people I usually just pass by, I am going to let Jesus love them through me. I am going to love my neighbor!

9 Comments:

Blogger Maria del Carmen said...

I think we all need to stop and be sensitive to this...who is in need...or in desperate want. Sometimes I am so busy going about my business, I realize these things after the fact. I often think of Jesus and how he performed miracles on the road (while on his way somewhere else). He never said, "Oh, wow, I'd love to heal you, but I have a previous engagement and I'm going to be late. I'll get back to you!" Nothing like that. He was always available; he always made time.

3:59 AM  
Blogger Live, Love, Laugh said...

Maria,
That was insightful, I mean it sounds ridiculous when you think about it! I never really thought about it quite like that. Thanks!

4:11 AM  
Blogger Robin said...

Forgive me Dana, I don't have time to read this entry right now but I had to come and comment. I had to laugh when you left me a comment on my blog this morning. You said you followd a link from Steelcowboy and you'd be back - as if you didn't know who I was!! I changed my template and my profile pic but I'm still Robin from A Little Bit of Me! It has been a while since I've made the rounds but I didn't think it was THAT long!! LOL!!!

5:08 AM  
Blogger Amstaff Mom said...

If His eyes are on the sparrow, how much more does He watch over us. How sad to think of these lives lost so needlessly. And to die alone, what a tragedy that is.

As Christians, we simply must love our neighbors, because most of the time no one else will.

5:24 AM  
Blogger Jayleigh said...

Amen sister!

A close friend of my choir director killed himself two nights ago and she was wondering the same things last night. His first wife killed herself 17 years ago and his business had gone south, but nobody thought this sunday school teacher would ever consider ending his own life.

He shot himself in the stomach, and had second thoughts so he called 911 and then his own father. He still died. How horrifying for these kids to have lost BOTH their parents to suicide.

5:43 AM  
Blogger Lava said...

Wow mom - so sad all thos ehurting people, I know what ya mean - I've been thinking about this alot too -I know I need to slow down and just notice more - Listen to God more - Love more....

9:03 AM  
Blogger Joe & Julie said...

Wow, what a sad but so true post. I am always watching those shows on Court TV and such about Forensics and things, and I always wonder, "How did these people end up here? Like this?" I remember losing people I loved, and thinking it was the end. But really it was the beginning. I accept the challenge to search and seek people who are hurting and suffering and try everything I can to help them. Excellent post.

10:05 AM  
Blogger MsThang said...

Great post Dana, we do indeed need to slow down and be more observant to what's to the side of us instead of what is directly in front of our path.

9:54 PM  
Blogger Lava said...

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PS This is Ms Thang posting under Lava.. everyone follow this link and go wish Dana's daughter a happy birthday!

12:13 AM  

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