Absolutes
Friday, June 09, 2006
At a recent gathering of seminary professors, one teacher reported that at his school the most damaging charge one student can lodge against another is that the person is being "judgmental."
He found this pattern very upsetting. "You can't get a good argument going in class anymore," he said. "As soon as somebody takes a stand on any important issue, someone else says that the person is being judgmental. And that's it. End of discussion. Everyone is intimidated!"
Many of the other professors nodded knowingly. There seemed to be a consensus that the fear of being judgmental has taken on epidemic proportions. Is the call for civility just another way of spreading this epidemic? If so, then I'm against civility. But I really don't think that this is what being civil is all about.
Christian civility does not commit us to a relativistic perspective. Being civil doesn't mean that we cannot criticize what goes on around us. Civility doesn't require us to approve of what other people believe and do. It is one thing to insist that other people have the right to express their basic convictions; it is another thing to say that they are right in doing so. Civility requires us to live by the first of these principles. But it does not commit us to the second formula.
To say that all beliefs and values deserve to be treated as if they were on a par is to endorse relativism -- a perspective that is incompatible with Christian faith and practice. Christian civility does not mean refusing to make judgments about what is good and true.
For one thing, it really isn't possible to be completely nonjudgmental. Even telling someone else that she is being judgmental is a rather judgmental thing to do!
This post is an excerpt from "Uncommon Decency" by Richard J. Mouw, I was reading this and thought how it applies to the times we live in. People seem to think if you speak up and say anything is right or wrong you are not being tolerant, or you are bigoted, judgmental, hating on someone or uneducated. However there is such things as Absolutes, God gave us a standard of right and wrong to live by, whether we want to acknowledge it or not, it is still Truth.
He found this pattern very upsetting. "You can't get a good argument going in class anymore," he said. "As soon as somebody takes a stand on any important issue, someone else says that the person is being judgmental. And that's it. End of discussion. Everyone is intimidated!"
Many of the other professors nodded knowingly. There seemed to be a consensus that the fear of being judgmental has taken on epidemic proportions. Is the call for civility just another way of spreading this epidemic? If so, then I'm against civility. But I really don't think that this is what being civil is all about.
Christian civility does not commit us to a relativistic perspective. Being civil doesn't mean that we cannot criticize what goes on around us. Civility doesn't require us to approve of what other people believe and do. It is one thing to insist that other people have the right to express their basic convictions; it is another thing to say that they are right in doing so. Civility requires us to live by the first of these principles. But it does not commit us to the second formula.
To say that all beliefs and values deserve to be treated as if they were on a par is to endorse relativism -- a perspective that is incompatible with Christian faith and practice. Christian civility does not mean refusing to make judgments about what is good and true.
For one thing, it really isn't possible to be completely nonjudgmental. Even telling someone else that she is being judgmental is a rather judgmental thing to do!
This post is an excerpt from "Uncommon Decency" by Richard J. Mouw, I was reading this and thought how it applies to the times we live in. People seem to think if you speak up and say anything is right or wrong you are not being tolerant, or you are bigoted, judgmental, hating on someone or uneducated. However there is such things as Absolutes, God gave us a standard of right and wrong to live by, whether we want to acknowledge it or not, it is still Truth.
posted by Live, Love, Laugh | 3:57 AM
4 Comments:
I'm proud to be a intolerant, bigoted, judgemental, hateful--toward sin and the author of all lies.
Sister, sister...I agree with you!
I also don't like the words, "politically correct". I'm sorry, I will be politically incorrect when it comes to my dislike of sin and all it encompasses. Good post...as usual!
Pat
I couldn't agree with you more, like Jesus said to Peter "what is it to you what someone else does?". I've been reminded more than once that instead of judging someone, we should pray for them. btw I came here through another blog so I hope you don't mind me commenting.
AMEN!!!!
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