Two New Boys in our Home

Saturday, August 26, 2006

Next week we will have two boys moving in with us. One is from Bryan and one from Houston, neither want to go home, both want to change their lives. Having done this several times, we don't expect too much. You don't change eighteen years of dysfunction in a year. The thing that keeps us going is knowing that Jesus said, "If you do it to the least of these, you have done it unto me." So we don't look at the who or what, we just look to Jesus, His word does not come back void and He sends it out to accomplish the thing he sent it to accomplish.

Jeremy is eighteen, he has no idea who his father is, he has never had a room of his own, he was his brother in law's problem solver. In other words, his brother in law used him to take care of his business. Jeremy got a call from him about two months ago and the call was basically, "when you come home, you have to go take care of this person, because this is what they did." Jeremy's mother is an alcoholic and is dying of cancer.

Thankfully, Jeremy went to his caseworker after he received the phone call from his brother in law. He told him, "I don't want to take care of it, I don't want to live that life anymore, I can't do it anymore." He then comes to us after church one day and asks if there is any way he can come to our home to live. So we prayed about it, spoke with many counselors, caseworkers, staff and decided it was a go.

The first time he was in our home, he was so excited to see he had his own room. He kept saying on the way back to the Ranch that he tried to take eye pictures so he could remember every detail. He then talked about how he was going to try very hard to live a good life, he was going to go to AA meetings and he wanted to know when he could go apply for a job.

Then we have Junior, he is also eighteen and wants to travel the world. Both of his parents are incarcerated, he has a little brother and two older sisters. I tried many times to dissuade him from coming to our home, because knowing the holidays will be here and he won't be able to see his family, would be a very trying time for him. But he wouldn't hear of it, he kept telling me for the past six months that he wanted to change his life, so he will be here also.

We have had both boys in a program called Defining a Man, it is teaching them first to be Men of God, then How to be a Husband and lastly How to be a Father. We also have them in an intense discipleship program to learn the Word and also to learn how to disciple others. Junior has memorized over a hundred scriptures and knows them well. Jeremy has memorized about twenty. They are both growing and doing well. If you think of it will you pray for them. I will post pictures tomorrow. God Bless you all.

10 Comments:

Blogger Hliza said...

Hi Love, Live, Laugh..
Thanks for visiting my blog. It's my first time here and I found yours is lovely and very, very intersting! I like your'Mohammad Ali's daughter' post so much; would you mind if I borrow it and post it on mine?

3:28 AM  
Blogger Live, Love, Laugh said...

hilza, that will be fine, thanks for visiting!

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Blogger Angel Girl said...

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Blogger Birmingham Girl said...

What an incredible person you are, you touch my heart in so many ways. I will be praying for your household and that God would touch the hearts of these young men whom you have given an awesome opportunity. Also praying for you and your mom ~ as always!
I'm now on my way to moms. Yesterday she hit her gate and tore her side mirror off her car and damaged the trim on the side..again! My husband just fixed it 3 months ago! I'm afraid this is only a taste of things to come! I pray she only hits her gate and no other cars! God Bless you and your family!
Pat

9:07 AM  
Blogger An Ordinary Christian said...

I love your work in the Lord! In the enormously long blog I wrote today, I mentioned about some new patients I am going to be seeing. Your work inspired me.

10:47 AM  
Blogger Mountain Mama said...

These boys will certainly benefit from your love and caring. It's possibe they would have never even known about God's love if they had never come into your life.

12:00 PM  
Blogger jel said...

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4:05 AM  
Blogger jel said...

sorry about at I can't spell early in the morning,

will be praying for you all


take care

6:38 AM  
Blogger Jada's Gigi said...

God Bless you! I have had many troubled kids in my life an dsome in my house. it is a rough journey but sometimes a lasting impression si made, God doesHis work...and you never know what lies donw the road. Thank you for attempting to rescue these boys...So many jsut need a chance...I am praying for you and for them.

7:03 AM  
Blogger John Cowart said...

I stand in awe of what you are doing with these young men. I bearly survived my own children; I can't imagine what it's like to take in others. Me, I just write about being Christian now and then; you, you live it.

3:21 AM  

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